Dye your hair neon. Trystan, a 48-year-old marketing writer from Silicon Valley, is a self-proclaimed "office eccentric. This particular Care Bears inspired tee is a riot.
Of course a goth girl's outfit would not be complete without her classic black lipstick. So you'll never have a common ground with the soccer moms. Not Helpful 2 Helpful 36. Neo is a term used to single out those who may be new to the scene and are still trying to find where they fit in.
Since this is a fairly new scene, though, I'm sure that we'll be hearing from more groups that identify as Pastel. Another, more unexpected newcomer to the scene is Pastel goth. These same style points are utilized by the Vamp subset.
There's altogether too much infighting going on in the scene, and I'd rather not proliferate that kind of behavior. Just kidding, but honestly it is a tough task for folks who dabble in gothic fashion and "lifer" goths to traverse the mine field that is goth summer style. Consider wearing distressed denim jeans with a black T-shirt, combat boots, and studded bracelets. Goth formal clothing tends to include black gowns or suits. Corsets are a staple of the feminine side of gothic fashion. Neons were the color of choice for the '90s goth but pastels are a goth's sidekick now.
You could also take a black belt and attach metal studs to it.
This category is often looked down on by other groups sometimes even referred to as 'goth lite' , as they don't seem to fit in aesthetically. This particular style is available in sizes S to 3XL. Suits tend to be a little fancier looking than most other kinds of suits with longer jackets and maybe even a top hat; the jacket, waistcoat, shirt, tie, and pants should be all black.
Consider going with dark brown, a soft shade of light brown, or platinum blond. Last time I got a negative comment, I was wearing a pair of black and white stripy tights and a velvet dress and someone shouted at me, "You should be ashamed dressing like that.