Adding structure to your argument can help make it a tactical discussion, instead of a firestorm.
Take time to get into the right mindset for a productive not explosive conversation. The fact that there is no other choice gives me that extra push to truly let go….
Click to opt-out of Google Analytics tracking. Your books and posts, along with so many other writers and teachers, have helped me understand that, while not a permanent reality for me, I can access a deep peace and equanimity with these situations. And in experiments people who suppress emotion are worse at problem solving skills, task completion, and interpersonal relationships.
By making our mental, emotional, and physical space into a safe harbor, we can carefully control what is allowed to enter our hearts and minds. In fact, writing out all the gory details just makes you seem petty and small minded. Furthermore, I had to be the one to behave better. There will be a time when you need to go to war. Yes, HR is technically in place to support the needs of employees, but their bigger purpose is to keep employees happy and motivated so they remain good producers and keep strong loyalty to the company.
I have chosen to protect myself from bullying. So first, be open to emotions. For right now at least. I wanted his family to respect me for standing my ground.
If you have a popular blog or write articles that are published in online newspapers, you have an immediate channel to clarify your position. What we can do is keep meeting our own feelings, welcoming what we experience with love and acceptance. Everything you do will be tinged with anger and bitterness. Guided Audio Meditations — Now Available!
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If you need to apologize for not being clear the first time, then do that. Skip to content. Dan Waldschmidt by Dan Waldschmidt October 16, 2013. I realized, finally, that if I was going to feel safe and respected and loved, it had to come from within.
It feels pretty horrible to be taken advantage of publicly.
Set boundaries. Thank you so much for sharing your valuable insights. Deciding which one has the right view on the situation is the challenge.